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Let’s debunk common myths

Through our frontline work, we know that sexual violence survivors often struggle with feelings of shame, guilt and self-blame that can make it difficult to talk to them about their experiences. Survivors also often fear that others will blame them or that those they tell won’t believe them.

Sexual violence myths can reinforce these feelings and fears. Let’s learn what these are.
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COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHERSupport

Rape is a painful event and it affects your mind and body. It is important to have support from family and friends. Reach out to them

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THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE TO LISTENCare

After you have been raped, it is important to seek medical attention within 72hrs in order to receive medical care

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EDUCATE THE COMMUNITYTraining

Through our outreach and awareness programs we train and conduct sensitisation of Community Leaders and community focal persons

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SEEK JUSTICEAdvocacy

You have the right to demand justice, we work together with legal services that represent survivors of rape and we refer you to them.

RESOURCES

Annual Reports, Latest Articles and Documentation by ARC

ARC’s mission is to provide a comprehensive response to Sexual Gender-Based Violence through quality medical and psychological services, awareness raising and advocacy, training and research, whilst changing mindsets and attitudes towards “sexual gender-based violence”.
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To find out more information about the organisation’s activities and financial performance feel free to view and download our Annual report.

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Write Up on the #72 Nationwide Campaign

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Prevention and response to Sexual and Gender-Based Violence in the context Covid-19: Case of the Adult Rape Clinic.

Complied by Timothy Mushambi

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Let your community leaders and members alike know that you will not tolerate sexual violence in your society.

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What to expect when you visit ARC
Reporting Rape Within 72hrs

Receiving medical attention after rape is an emergency. Rush to the clinic within 72hrs
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Only women are victims of rape.Rape is not gender specific, it can befall anyone from every walk of life.

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Previous sexual conduct, including previous consent to sex, is not consent for sex right nowIf she had sex with me before, she has consented to have sex with me again

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It’s not rape if it happens after drinking or taking drugs.A person under the influence of drugs or alcohol can’t
consent to sexual activity.

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Children usually tell someone about their abuseMost children do not tell anyone. They are often silenced through threats or fear of not being believed

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There is a certain ‘type’ of woman who gets rapedRape can and does happen to women of all classes, ages, cultures, background.

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Dressing provocatively is inviting rapeA person’s clothing or behavior aren’t invitations for unwanted sexual activity

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Religious People don’t get raped Rape isn’t based on religion but Power.

MYTH: A woman who gets drunk is inviting rape. The truth is that both men and women sometimes get drunk – it is not a crime to drink, it is a crime to rape.

TRUTH: A person that is too drunk might be incapable of consenting to sex; sex without consent is rape.

MYTH: It’s not rape if a woman wears revealing clothing, because then she wants sex. Sex without consent is always rape, no matter what the circumstances. Just because a woman wears a short skirt or a revealing top does not always mean that she is sending out a signal that she is available for sex. A woman always has the right to choose if, when and with whom she has sex.

TRUTH: When a woman wears revealing clothes she is not actively consenting to sex – she must still be able to deny her consent to sex if she chooses to.

MYTH: Women who wear revealing clothing invite men to rape them. Appearance and clothing have nothing to do with who gets raped. Women are raped no matter what they wear: babies in nappies, old women in tracksuits and nuns in habits also get raped.

TRUTH: Clothing does not determine who gets raped. 

MYTH: Rapists are always strangers in the dark. The truth is that most rapes occur between people who know each other. A person is much more likely to be raped by a family member, relation or friend than by a stranger.

TRUTH: Rapists are mostly known to the survivor. 

MYTH: It’s not rape if the woman has given her consent to having sex with the man before. If a woman consents to sex once, that does not mean the man has a right to have sex with her anytime from now on.

TRUTH: Both people need to consent to sex every time.

MYTH: It’s not rape if the woman and man are married or in a relationship. The truth in Zimbabwe is that a husband or boyfriend may never force his wife or girlfriend to have sex with him. If he does, he can be charged with rape. A woman has to give consent for sex, every time.

TRUTH: In any relationship, a woman has the right to say no to sex.

MYTH: Women say they have been raped to get revenge on a man. The truth is that women very rarely do this, as reporting rape to the authorities and going through a rape trial are very traumatic. It takes a lot of courage to report a rape and go through with a rape trial. Other people often make rape victims feel ashamed or guilty about the rape, which makes it even less likely that a woman would lie about rape.

TRUTH: People lie about all crimes, not just rape. The number of people that lie about being the victim of a crime is very small. 

MYTH: A woman who withdraws rape charges was never raped in the first place. Women who withdraw rape charges mostly do this because the people around them pressurise them to do so. This can happen, for example, if the rapist is the breadwinner of the family, if the family fears a scandal or if they fear revenge by the rapist’s friends and family. Rape victims are often intimidated into dropping charges.

TRUTH: If a woman withdraws a rape charge, it doesn’t mean she was lying. 

MYTH: If the victim gets sexually aroused or has an orgasm during the rape, it means she enjoyed it. Although this sometimes happens, it does not mean the survivor enjoyed it. It can in fact make the rape more traumatic.

TRUTH: The stress of the rape can cause the body to respond in a sexual way automatically. 

MYTH: A woman can prevent rape if she tries hard enough. The truth is that most men are stronger than most women. But force is often not necessary, as men can use emotional manipulation, weapons or threats on the victim’s life to get a woman to comply.

TRUTH: A woman cannot do anything to prevent the rape from happening. 

MYTH: Respectable women don’t get raped. Promiscuous women invite rape. The truth is that there is no type of woman who gets raped: women of all ages and social positions get raped. The lifestyle and personality of the victim has nothing to do with getting raped. The rapist is to blame.

TRUTH: Rape can happen to any type of person. 

MYTH: A woman is asking to get raped if she goes into an unsafe area, such as a bad neighbourhood or a bar. The truth is that women are more likely to be sexually assaulted in their own homes or in places familiar to them than anywhere else.

TRUTH: A woman can be raped anywhere, even in her own home. 

MYTH: Rapists are mentally ill madmen or are sex starved. The truth is that only very few rapists are mentally ill. Most rapists are not sex starved – they are mostly men who act responsibly at work and at home with their families.

TRUTH: You cannot tell a rapist from a man who does not rape . 

MYTH: Men rape for sex. The truth is that rape is not only about relieving sexual desire. It is about gaining power and control over another person. A rapist gets satisfaction by humiliating and controlling his victim and uses sex as the tool to do this.

TRUTH: Rape is more about having power over someone than about sex. 

MYTH: Once a man is sexually excited, he cannot stop. The truth is that all men and women sometimes get sexually excited and want it to lead to sex. But we can all choose to stop and wait for the feeling to subside.

TRUTH: We all have control over our choices and our bodies. Rapists choose not to stop. 

MYTH: Women dream or fantasies about rape and will enjoy it if it happens. The truth is that some women may think about being raped, but in no way do they wish it to happen. They can control fantasizing and can stop when they choose, but they have no control when they are raped.

TRUTH: No one wants to be raped. 

MYTH: Women say ‘no’ when they mean ‘yes’. In some cultures, a woman is expected to be coy and to not ‘welcome’ sexual advances. But this does NOT mean that a man can ignore it if a woman says ‘no’. A man must always be very sure that the woman consents.

TRUTH: When a woman says ‘no’, it means ‘no’. 

Everyone deserves to be safe
Say NO to RAPE